He may actually want a long-term relationship, but always remember that chronic lying is highly addicting—an addition that requires at least a year of sobriety to begin to recover, just like any other.
So dangerous and alluring, yet hard to catch and even harder to keep. You may be excited, but you have throw them back. Players are sexual con artists and the key to their game is an ability to skillfully lie.
How to date a player and not get hurt
Remind yourself that you are saying no for now and that some day you may catch them again when they are big enough to keep. The problem is they can spend years or even decades playing the field with their revolving harem of women before they decide to commit, kind of like George Clooney who only recently got engaged.
Players know it is just a matter of time before you see through the con. However, the most dangerous con a player can run is the one where he claims he has changed and wants a long-term relationship.
About the Author: Scott Carroll Dr. After the essential ability to say nobeing able to identify and defend yourself from the bad actors out there is the next critical skill single women need. While they may not end up in prison, they thrive on breaking the rules—like with monogamy. Scott Carroll.
Your defense : The bad news is that research shows it takes a liar to spot a liarso trying to see through the con is unrealistic. However, the more serious problem is with the boy part of their nature. Namely they are still immature, allergic to hard work and responsibility. So whether you are a rookie or a veteran, this guide to the three most dangerous types of men in the dating jungle will help you to safely navigate these treacherous waters to the harbor of true love.
Welcome to black and married with kids
Macks are cool and fun like bad boys, but they take their careers seriously and are highly successful. Their cons run the gamut from fake injuries to elaborate stories about fabulous trips they have never taken and are far too numerous to describe here.
If you slow things down and try to get to know them, they will move on to easier pickings. Instead, his game is built around generating so much attraction in a woman that she surrenders and accepts being in his harem just to be around him.
In his spare time, he writes about dating and relationships and mentors marriage minded singles at Marry the Right One. Learn to spot these dangerous types of men to protect yourself from another bad catch. They are also smooth and confident like players, but they never stoop to deception to seduce a woman.
He is also a full mesa carrying shaman in the Andean tradition and the founder of the Ayni Neuroscience Institute, which is dedicated to the integration of indigenous healing wisdom and cutting edge neuroscience. Even then, you have to be prepared to immediately walk away—like Emma Stone was—if he starts to waver or change his mind.
How to recognize a player so you don’t get played
While they are usually well-dressed, smooth and confident, they can actually present themselves in a variety of different ways based on the con they are running. Part of the reason why they are so dangerous is they can be great partners, husbands and fathers if they ever decide to be in a relationship. They can only grow up in the ocean—not in the fish tank.
Now before you get discouraged and decide to become a nun, recognize that these bad actors are only about 10 percent of the single men out there. Always remember that until a mack is ready to commit there is nothing you can do to catch him.
Why being a player is easy until you find real love
The good news is that players are looking for low-hanging fruit and want to close the deal quickly. Players are different from bad boys because they use deception to seduce women, rather than waving their red flags like a cape before a bull.
We all know them when we see them, but they still attract women in like moths to a flame. If you have heard the term before you may have mistakenly assumed it was another name for a player or bad boy, but macks are different—and far more dangerous.